In our world where we are bombarded by information through TV, radio, billboard ads, Facebook and Twitter, communicating effectively is still an issue for all of us. Stories abound how we mis communicate through violent words and actions. Certain types of non-verbal body language are seen as doing harm to another. Foul language is taken for granted, spewing out on oneself and any one else in the way.
The secret I want to discuss here is one that seems to be forgotten by society today- in stores, on the street and in the home. It is the three fold magic words of ‘Please, Thank You and You’re Welcome.’ The underlying quality of all three is respect. Unless we respect ourselves, we cannot respect others. Children do what they see. If they are not taught how to show respect for themselves and others, they will not learn and apply it in their daily lives.
What’s the big deal? You may ask. These magic words convey a gentleness and respect that becomes evident to the one listening. It implies that the speaker has taken time to think before responding to the situation. Wherever you go, are you polite and do you respond with a smile? As I reflect on this, it makes me pause and consider my own actions and reactions to situations that arise in my life.
Remember the Golden Rule: “Do unto others as you would wish them to do to you.” Oftentimes, it’s seems to be, to do unto others as they do to you. It’s very easy to react to negative situations in a negative manner.
Let’s become aware of how positively or negatively we communicate with others. Let’s use those magic words to create a positive effect in our lives. Notice how the ripples will help you and others smile and spread peace!
Keep the secret going, please!
Thanks for doing it!
Bride
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